Here is a touchy subject but one I must address. I believe a person's happiness depends on THEM. I believe one must posess a security within themselves in order to be able to be happy in life. Unfortunately a lot of people do not have other's best interests at heart and live in complete misery. To judge someone based on the clothes they have, the home they live in, the car they drive, how they carry themselves on the outside, the things they supply to their children, is a weakness and a sad way to go through life. I have crossed paths with many who judge me and my answer is simple. You are what you make yourself out to be. One must work at goals instead of chastisising other's who have. Money does not fall from the sky, you have to work at desires and get out into the world. If you fail to do so, you lose everything in a heartbeat. Then what? You choose to persecute the one's who have success? People have that success because they have made themselves successful. You can too, so do it.